Does it ever make you feel like a paedo? I feel ya there. I also agree that the OP means no ill will but heaven forbid a ~non-model~ woman exude confidence and joy. Maybe also being slightly aloof or having excellent manners? But as he says, working out is really about taking pride in one's appearance. Depends on what kind of person you are and who you want to be. I still watch anime, play magic/pokemon, enjoy Disney movies (Big Hero 6 was great) and love doing that stuff together, just don't use the baby voice. Men on Reddit have been furiously adding to an Ask Men thread entitled: ‘What is something women think makes them more attractive to men while men think it … -and either heartbreaking, enraging or contemptuous depending on the level of one's personal connection ... childlike put ons ... can be grating but people who are grating about finding an aesthetic choice grating would probably not be a good choice for anyone. A slinky black dress, some pale makeup and dark red lipstick? Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. However, some girls blush quite easily. How to Deal With Petty Coworkers. Avery, who I have in fact never seen since, told me that the very act of asking the question suggests that I am indeed a good person. And that's all you need. You will be perceived the same way you feel about yourself, if you are insecure it shows in body language, mannerisms, speech, etc. So there's a rule: You say sorry three times and then just nod and smile. It's creepy because it makes me feel like I'm dating a child and it's annoying because it frequently puts the partner in the 'tribal leader/provider/active party' role when they may not want to be. I feel like it must go beyond just acting traditionally feminine. Plenty of women do, even "regular" non-famous ones. Again, Virgos are pretty set in their ways and are not easily convinced to try something new. Society kinda plays up the whole idea that men should be strong protectors, and sometimes it's fun to just sort of play along. Thanks for sharing. Our hijabs act like a pair of ear muffs, which means we sometimes can't hear you. Beauty can draw people in but charm, intelligence and charisma adds the kind of substance that people pick up on. Thanks for confirming that I’m heading in the right direction. 1. I'm sure you mean well, but this post bothers me. Reddit gives you the best of the internet in one place. Pretty much the same thing I find intimidating by other men." So yeah, a lot of guys do love that cute, innocent little princess style. On December 25, 2011 (Christmas Day), GoDaddy lost a net 16,191 domains as a result of the boycott. She was bullied by Alison, who told everyone she was nothing and treated her like she was invisible. Depends on how connected she is to real world. Whether or not it's cute depends on what 'acting childish' entails: wearing a sundress with a ponytail tied with a bow, cute. I agree with all the other comments about her personality, but have to underline — she’s working off of a very specific physical base. My view is that there's a lot of different archetypes around (cool and professional, femme fatale, bimbo, princess, goth, whatever), and most women will present as some mixture of one or more at some time or other. Far end of this spectrum is girls who sleep with stuffed animals and want to open a puppy farm, low end of the spectrum is girls who wear Princess Jasmine pullovers. Wouldn’t let her leave the house without “putting her face on”, etc. Your title should be descriptive, informative, and on-topic. Cursed Judge here in clutch with another le reddit video. Also literally all the things you mentioned is how I was brought up to be and see my self and how I’ve lived my life up till now, down to the bowed head. What "pretty" is, is something that you will have to decide for yourself, regardless of what you see or hear from the media and other people. Should you look around your surroundings? So much so, that Mona herself began to believe it. I would generally say cute, but that I feel creepy myself for finding it cute. I think she likely draws the attention of whatever room she’s in. It feels nice too. You can also work on your evil laugh for whenever other people suffer or … The next time girls act … Without me to lead, others would flounder. Awesome! So yeah, I guess my vote is "cute up to a point, then not so much". Basically, the magic to these women’s appeal lies outside their objective “base line” beauty, and in all their other attributes and the ways they highlight what they do have. This explains so much... confidence is a brand new concept to me. It's not a "cope" or whatever, she literally loves and looks after herself. Is she supposed to hang her head low, stop taking care of herself, and become antisocial because someone thinks she's plain? All the Botox in the world can’t get you that kind of it factor ‍♀️. Bridge too far, I fear. Should you make yourself comfortable? Drink at least 8 cups (1,900 ml) of water a day. Your hair is one of the first things people will notice about you, so take a few minutes each morning to style it. Press J to jump to the feed. Having confidence. Should you speak? If she wants the drink to be juice, preferably in a sippy cup, then uh...yeah. Very childish girls are just that - girls. A bit childish is cute, fe. Spend time with kids and interact with them to see how they act. And yet I see the appeal and can sometimes see the prettiness she creates with her personality. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. And there are lots of them. I’ve literally been trying all those things, that’s so fucking funny. Edit: I was surprised that you described Jennifer as basic and bland, because while her looks are average I think most people would agree that she has a certain star factor, and would not be considered basic by most. eg: if you like stuffed animals, that's fine, as long as you know they aren't alive, etc... a woman should want to protect and uplift cute things. I think the allure of those two women are their looks, bubbly personality, and their “authenticity”, based off the characters they play. Yes, people around you want to see you happy and comfortable! People kept telling me I was pretty. Petty behavior at work can be annoying at best and damaging at worst. I'm always wary of girls who are really into the princess thing though... childlike exuberance is cute. - It’s that kind of thinking that exudes confidence. I countered that I felt the exact opposite was true. To act like an evil person, pretend that you’re selfish and hate everyone else. It is my personal opinion that Jennifer is basic and bland, not someone I would think of as pretty if I saw her in the street. Here are seven things the studies found. I am not attracted to my niece. Most people don’t measure up. A cute frilly dress and a bow in the hair can be super attractive, and if she wants to make a joke about her parents telling her not to talk to strangers while you're taking her back to your place for a drink, all the better. Try to understand how they see the world and try to learn from them. 5. This is stuff she was drilled on from a young age and has (or maybe had, at this point) a fair amount of insecurity about. Girls that sleep with a doll of some sort remind me of her. She has an “open” body language and “catwalk posture” I'm talking about 16-26 year old women/girls who like Disney clothes, bows, frilly clothes, etc. Interesting question. She acts pretty because she believes she is pretty and doesn't let opinions like the one expressed here bring her down. Apparently somewhat fashionable right now? She softmaxxes to an airtight degree. Creepy being she believes she is a real disney princess. She exudes confidence, joy, and peace because she likes herself. Police were called a… Reddit is a network of communities based on people's interests. A WOMAN was caught allegedly performing a sex act on a man on the London Underground in the middle of the day in front of horrified key workers during the coronavirus lockdown. If you are emotionally or mentally weak, prison will destroy you and no one will recognize you when you get out. Baby voice/ acting like a brat, leave. How do you feel about girls who act kind of childish? 4. Each of us, to some degree, is susceptible to petty behavior toward others. I’m saying the same thing but in less colorful language. Behaving like a child is not. How do you think "basic and bland" people should behave? I do always wonder whether the women I admire know the enchantment they are casting, it sounds like they do. Reddit users noted that by December 22, 2011, SOPA supporters were discovering the backlash that could arise from ignoring social media users. I love watching Disney movies with my SO, but acting like princess would drive me crazy. The "I widdle nd cute like a 2 year old" So fucking irritating. My mom still does it from time to time when I'm home for the holidays, and I have to remind her that I'm not a kid anymore. Rules. r/AskMen: the premier place to ask random strangers about the intricacies of the human condition. If she likes Disney or stuffed toys, that's cool. Define tough. Jennifer Aniston takes care of her body and exudes confidence because she likes herself. Stared at often. Accented with inch long stiletto nails? Enter college, male students staring during lecture, professors and GSIs being extra friendly, you get grades you know you didn't really deserve, invited to parties by people you barely know, told you're beautiful by random people on the street. Not all of them will like you, but enough of them will. They’re gorgeous but can also be relatable, so they are nice to look at but they make people feel good because “hey, you’re human just like me! Just don't be an asshole about it. Tap to play or pause GIF patheos.com. I will def look into that book, thank you for sharing. Follow the reddiquette and rules of reddit.Be nice. Uptight. Enjoy children's activities and the things that innocent people enjoy. As long as she doesn't act like a child, I'm okay with it. Acting pretty, can change how people perceive you yes, and make people notice you, but only when you are actually quite pretty by society's standards. That is definitely a cheat code. You say it like it’s obvious, but it’s not. And youth is generally associated with fertility and attractiveness, so there's that. As long as they don't do the fucking baby voice. Comparatively, anyhow.). I have trouble containing anger and controlling my mood in general, but I’ve been trying to be kinder to myself and everyone because life is awful manifesting as better manners. This guy's on Reddit finds it intimidating if a girl has more money or is more intelligent than him, and that probably makes more sense than most things on this list. I don't think you can make any real conclusions; the behaviour under discussion is too varied. childlike naivete ... is dumb. Not my thing! I never saw confidence growing up and it was def not encouraged. I have learned to accept compliments, but really I wanted to work on my mind. (Yes, that's a real style. not everyone wants a dominatrix ice queen. Posts with questions that are easily answered by the FAQ or Google may be removed. Normal being she watched disney as a kid. 8. She resorted to playing with dolls since she didn't many any friends left due to Alison's bullying. I think you took OP’s post the wrong way but I do agree 100% with what you said, Press J to jump to the feed. Is it cute, sexy, or creepy? Talk confidently and hold your head high to show you don’t care what people think of you. If you want to feel and look pretty, wear clean, unwrinkled clothes that make you feel good about your body. Someone on here mentioned how Jennifer Aniston is treated like she’s pretty because she “acts pretty” and surely feels pretty. Social media users agreed that while the wife’s humiliating act was entertaining, it doesn’t address the issue of his cheating. I love to wear pretty dresses like a 6-7 and my cousin dress is very pretty I feel company sending it in I love them more than anything too makes me feel good when you but you were nice pretty dress with no stockings beautiful panties. Do any of you guys prefer women who act like that? Or is it a turnoff? Yes, because they want to hear your thoughts! Her fitness is flawless, posture great, her hair/grooming/fashion is on point of the time. Exactly! I enjoy the company of people who are comfortable enough with themselves to not be serious all the time. They’re gorgeous, well-styled women, but they also act kinda ditzy/make dumb mistakes which makes them more attainable/normal/charming. To rephrase this, I think "cute" generally refers to more childish features (round-face as you pointed out, but maybe also bigger eyes, small button-nose etc. Wow it’s interesting that you think many captivating women are aware and performing (I say this in the “you’re born, and the rest is drag” sense which I very much respect). So you’ll want to get a baseline of how she acts around other people before you assume her blushing is unique towards you. She was even nicknamed \"Loser Mona\" by Alison and called that by the entire school. Yes, especially because people are trying to make eye contact with you! Emotionally abusive. I can date someone like you/I can be like you!”. Numerous studies indicate that a woman's presence can change a dude's behavior in some pretty insane ways. I feel like women like this are almost always very smart and self aware, they have an almost dancer-like awareness of their bodies, even if they use that awareness to create a casual, slouched look, they are doing it intentionally. I literally never thought deeply about confidence until today. By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. Jennifer is graceful, glows, has piercing eyes and is just unbelievably charming and lokeable. Read the FAQ before posting. They're just girls - pretty, cute, fun, tricky, flirty, lively, and maybe a little silly sometimes. Staying fully hydrated will make you look better by … Far end of this spectrum is girls who sleep with stuffed animals and want to open a puppy farm, low end of the spectrum is girls who wear Princess Jasmine pullovers. I’m finally doing it. But again, only up to a point. I’ve never felt free to express myself. Yes! Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts And if well done, they are all pretty good; if over the top then it can get creepy fast. Find communities you're interested in, and become part of an online community! Jennifer Aniston and SJP are always amazing in interviews because they’re so full of wit and sparkle. Can cope with the low end of it. It won't matter one bit how physically tough you are. This is something she’s talked about in interviews and memoirs — she had a rough estranged relationship with her mom, who was a former model and a perfectionist and really harsh on Jen about her appearance. Speak in a deep, slow voice like a movie villain. Cookies help us deliver our Services. Everyone has enviable features, whether they recognize it or not, and what makes you different may in reality be what makes you most beautiful. He's also clearly showing that he doesn't have dating double standards because he maintains his body and values this act of self-love in a partner, too. This is a ground breaking idea to me. So many people here seem to think that women who aren't models need to be insecure or they're cheating the system. What is it that she and others in this category “do” to create their own unique beauty and allure? The u/Pretty-Act2158 community on Reddit. Liv Tyler wrote a book on etiquette that's very informative, if a little dry. Every time I see that it makes me feel extremely awkward. Press J to jump to the feed. Overthinking and worrying are classic Virgo traits. In addition to your outfit, be sure to shower every 1-2 days to keep your skin clean and smelling good. They are also charismatic, funny, attentive in conversation, aware of their faces and expressions. I’d actually been researching confidence all day. If she acts as though she's still a child then it's weird. I imagine it might include smiling, looking people in the eye, and wearing jewelry and stylish clothing. Believe me, you can be confident, charming and witty and guys/ the general public will not pay you attention if you are plain. … I do myself. I think Jennifer Aniston’s pretty is different than Audrey Hepburn’s pretty or Gina Torres’s pretty. Jen’s physical/grooming/fashion comportment is what opens the door to let her bubbly/confident/funny side shine through. This is spot on. It's not a turn on in any way, but not a turn off either. There is no cheat code, no tips or magic to be had here. anything else is justifiable or doesn't matter. I have no problem with girls who constantly sing disney songs because that means that I can sing with them, but weaving their whole personality around girly things creeps me out a bit. Although I think my cutoff point might be a lot higher than OP; I don't see anything wrong with sleeping with a stuffed animal, or being really into animals or whatever. I'm talking about 16-26 year old women/girls who like Disney clothes, bows, frilly clothes, etc. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Some people are going to find her attractive, some aren't. They also run the risk of being critical about others' choices when they're not the Virgo's first choice. I’ve always thought of Liv Tyler as being in this category I mentioned. IMO nobody would be looking twice at her “pretty personality” charisma if she was a shlub. That, and actually expecting the world to treat em like a Disney princess, but luckily I haven't run into that yet. Depends on what you’re going for. To find new friends, try and talk to new people at your school, your work, your church or other places of worship, or through a youth group. They're not these devious, scheming creatures who must be overcome. Turnoff. Mona never forgot the way Alison had treated her, labeling her as an outsider and a dork. If seems a little embarrassed, unsure of how to act and her face appears a little red, then she probably likes you. I prefer grown-up women not women acting like children. I feel like everyone on here uses terms that are very useful, but new to me, to describe features that essentially make you bland and basic. Reports up to December 29 described GoDaddy as "hemorrhaging" customers. This Reddit user is open about why he prefers fit women. whether she is 2, 22 or 82, there is something laudable about being excited about life. SJP is one of these people too. And for anyone that’s confused as to what that could mean - it’s knowing that even if you don’t “belong” in a space, you’ll be accepted and appreciated. It is that foreign to me, like, I have to laugh. 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